I recently found a text message on my partner's phone that made it obvious he'd been having a sexual relationship with another person. I confronted him and he denied it so I rang the number on his phone. I explained who I was and asked if she was having sex with my boyfriend. She admitted they'd been meeting and had had intercourse once, then she dropped the bomb shell that she was transexual. He had met her through a TV/TS Chat room and the relationship had developed from there. Initially there were a lot of tears and my boyfriend offered to move out. However, I know I love him and said we could work things out. It's now been 3 weeks since I found out and things aren't getting easier for me to accept. As I said, I love him but am I enough for him if he's interested in transexuals? Will he stop these desires or merely surpress them. He insists that he's not gay or bisexual but merely that life had lost its spark and he'd wanted to do something forbidden.
I am unable to talk to family and friends because of the nature of his infidelity.