High libido... is this normal???
I have always had a high libido.Was high in my 20's,stronger in my 30's,Now that I am in my early 40's is it even stronger. I love the man I am with but he can not keep up. I refuse to look outside of our relationship, but this is driving me crazy. He is mid 30's and though he is good to go once a day, he rarely wants it more often. I feel like I am doing something wrong masturbating to subdue the excess. I know I am not,but if tables were turned, I would be offended that he had to seek self satisfaction. When I was married, the ONLY time I refused my spouse was due to menstruation, illness, or him being away. I wanted to keep him satisfied."If he gets enough at home, he wont be looking elsewhere." And it was true.. til he died. I do recognise that regardless of whether or not a woman is aroused, we can still be there when they need it. There ARE other ways that he can help me. He isnt interested. Like he needs to be in the mood for that too. I have begun to feel that my high libido is an invisible abnormality. I feel embarrassed and ashamed that I am like this. Like there is something wrong with me. He feels bad about this. I end up in pain from lack of. I CAN work at something and not think about it, but heaven forbid I have longer than a bathroom break.