I am 30 years old and I have not been sexualy very active due to very conservative culture in Pakistan. But have masturbated a lot in my life. Since last few years I masturbate every 3 or 4 days. I got engaged two years ago and soon will going to be married. Now the problem I foresee if that I come out too quickly....I observed it when I meet my fiancee for few times. I felt that while just playing with her kissing her and playing with her boobs make me come out. I am worried now as going to be married soon bcz if I come out bfr puting my penus in her vegina it will be a very embarassing situation for me . I have reduced masturbating quite a lot but still do it. Is my problem a normal thing or a real problem? As i had complete sex with two girls two years back and those gilrs realy enjoyed sex with me a lot. i came out very late but at that time I was under drugs.....I also want to know what is the normal timing for getting out discharge while your penis is in the vagina?

Any ideas or suggestions?