My boyfriend wont tell his parents about our relationship

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Relationship Problems

ive been with my boyfriend for over a year now, we are both 16, we love each other and seem to have a healthy relationship. he has always said about his parents being strict and overly protective of him because they dont trust him. because of this and the fact that his family dont seem to communicate much he has found it too hard to tell his parents about our relationship.

i asked him for the first time last week if he could try and tell his parents about us because ive been getting anxious about it. he said he would try and sort it out but i dont know how long thats going to take! im worried if i push him ill make him feel pressured and upset into doing something he finds almost impossible to do. i dont know what its like to be in his situation so can anyone advise me on how to help him??

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perhaps you and him see

perhaps you and him see things differently. girls tend to be more committed and serious about relationships so maybe youre seeing him telling his parents as a big thing and he doesnt think its that important? maybe he knows that his parents will try and make things difficult for the two of you if he tells them, it might be better to just enjoy your freedom while youve got it? im sure theyd work it out in time anyway. its not like youve got to sit down around a table and announce youre getting married!

No need to tell

i am not sure why it is so important to you yhat he tell his parents. You are both 16 and allowed to have a relationship without parental permission, and if he feels telling them would cause a problem and be difficult, then it would be ok not to tell them.