The love of my life and I are due to be married in 8 weeks, but friday night she kissed another man.

I think I know how I feel but need to double check my feelings with others - I'd really like it for someone to leave a short note to help me please?

3 weeks ago the husband of her best friend (22years old) was killed in a motorbike accident, since then she has pulled away and been very scared of getting married as she could lose me. She has also recently started a new job and was getting on very well with a guy there since the accident as he lost his brother to a motorbike when he was younger (due to my trust in her I didn't find this an issue).

Last monday the guy at work was hurt in a motorbike accident which upset my girlfriend a lot, and she has since said that because of this she thought that she was developing feelings for him.

On friday night I went to meet her after a work social do, and saw them together and could tell something was up. She was drunk and told me afterwards that they had kissed but it didn't feel right (although they kissed more than once).

I am convinced that she loves me and was scared of marrying and using this as protection from fear, but she's hurt me a lot and I don't have a lot of confidence in her ability to deal with tough situations anymore. She is going crazy at making things better - she called the other guy and told him that she was fighting for me and to stay away from her, though they still work together.

Should I marry her still??????

I think yes as I trust my gut instinct, but I'm scared I'm being a fool??

thank you

Dan