Boy Friend gets Tired

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My boyfriend is very athletic but during sex he gets really tired. He comes but I never do. He says that he needs time to "reboot", and that I should get him aroused again. What should I do to get him aroused again after he comes.

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Puzzled

I am slightly at a loss, as it seems that he has his pleasure, you don't and then you think you should be doing something to 'reboot' him? Have I got that right?
I suggest you buy a video called 'Making Love', obtainable from www.amazon.co.uk, and watch it together. This would give each of you some ideas about how to take responsibility for your own pleasure, whilst also thinking about the other person's pleasure.