Sex - Good or Bad

Sex Addiction | Sex Problems for Men

Hi,

I am 24 M. My girl friend wants to have sex with me. But I like to have a good relation without sex. Is having sex with her is good or bad. Can I have sex with her or I have to wait until my marriage. I m also eager to have sex but controlling myself.

I'm totally confused.

Should boys keep viriginity unitl marriage, Please advice.

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sex Good OR Bad

My dear don't hurry up having sex with your girl friend just becoz she wants it. You don't know her back ground both socially or medically. There is always chance that you may get infected if she is having some thing like that. I strongly suggest stop seeing her marry once and settle down with family life. It is so wonderful to have own wife and family life and then your kids are also most interesting.

go ahead and enjoy but not now, once you are married.

Hi Tom,

Hi Tom,

Your kindful words made me so happy. Thanks thanks thanks a lot. Because I am very confused with this matter daily without sleep. Some my friends say that 'Oppurtunity knocks the door only once' and some say that 'Make hay while the sunshines'. So my friends engarage in this matter. But I feel that I doing something undesirable to future wife and my family.

I m totally confused with no ones advice/guide. As you guess, it is correct. She already had a lover and had many sex with him many times. Now, she just quarelled with him and say that she loves me and wants to marry me and also sex too. These things I came to know with her lover. He says that "she loved me until she saw you. She is not loving me because of you. you just neglect her. I want to marry her".

I strongly refused to marry her but still she wants to have sex with me. I lose my peace because of her and him mutually toturing me.

I negative point on my part is that I am stun with her on seeing her beauty and body structure [as she works with me in office the whole day].

I dont know what to do. Ok, I dont want to bother you much on telling my sad stories,

Anyhow, your kind words amkes me happy. Thanks for that. I will try to avoid her.

Thanks a lot.