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I think I have Issues... please Diagnose!

Submitted by patrick123421 on Wed, 27/06/2007 - 06:57. General

Hello, Im a male and I have a reoccurring problem. It is basically that i get to know women, fall for them and get really excited and happy for about the first 1-2 months of dating. Then i feel like they are getting on my nerves, like seeing the same woman each time and getting so used to their personality that it almost starts irritating you because you find all the imperfections in it. Now i really don't know what's wrong with me... is it commitment issues or I don't even know what. I also feel like i get bored in relationships and I can never be fully satisfied. I always wonder what my friends think of her and if they approve and how she is making me look amongst friends and in public.

If you can help me it will be much appreciated

thanks.

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Been there

Submitted by bmb337 on Wed, 27/06/2007 - 19:49.

I have been in the same spot you are and it is not a fun one. I always got bored after a few months with one person and I would leave them for another. Here is what I did to correct it:

first, I limited the time I spend with her, (less chance of getting bored, creates more excitment when you do see her)

Second, I did not introduce her to my friends for the first month or so, (it gives you time to get to know her with out friends putting in their 2 cents)

third, the hard part for me, I did not have sex with her for at least the first month, (if you start having sex too early it can become the only reason for the relationship)

last, I talked to her about things she did that were a problem for me (this gets it all out and I am sure she will tell you what bothers her, you will realize that neither of you are perfect)

This seemed to work for me, I ended up getting married.

Good luck

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