girlfirend is away on holiday

Relationship Problems

My girl is away to Spain for two wks. She's been away for one week tomorrow. The day she went she was telling me how much she loves me and how much she is going to miss me. The first day she phoned and said that she wished I was there cause it would be better, and the second day she phoned she said the same etc etc, but she never phoned me for three days after that, and when she did phone she was saying how great it was, but she says that she wished could stay over there! She says that she is missing me and still loves me loads. Am I being paranoid or is something wrong? I'm really worried because I love her and before she went she loved me (and I hope she still feels the same over there.)
p.s the reason I never went is because I got a new job, and she is over there with her mum, dad, best friend and best friend's mum

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Holiday worries

This seems like perfectly normal holiday behaviour to me and you are reading too much into it. She is having a good time, beginning to find her way around the place, and is loving it. That's what holidays are supposed to be like.
When she comes back, she may well be a bit sad, missing all the lovely things she did and the new people she met, so don't be too surprised if she seems a bit distant.
Meanwhile, get on with your new job, see your friends, and don't text or phone too often. If the relationship is any good, you will soon be back on track once the holidays are over.