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Premature loss of erection

Submitted by blknitenvrloses on Sat, 02/06/2007 - 20:06. General

I have no problem getting hard but I am in a new relationship and every time we have tried to have sex I have lost my erection just before penetration. I am too young to be having problems with this. Is there anything I can do without medication or is there any common reason that would be happening now because it has never happened to me before.

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Is there enough lubrication?

Submitted by Mature Man on Sun, 03/06/2007 - 09:54.

I agree that it's usually psychological.

Is she wet enough? If not, the dryness can seem unpleasant and can cause you to "wilt", too. Maybe a little Astroglide or KY Jelly would help. (I recommend "just a dab"; too much can make things awfully sloppy!)

I suspect another potential problem could be that, if you have cum a lot due to masturbation, you simply may be accustomed to only coming that way. We can get into a pattern sometimes.

Good luck.

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Psychological rather than medical

Submitted by mpramage on Sun, 03/06/2007 - 07:45.

Although medication such as Cialis might well help with this, it is not a medical problem but a psychological one.
If you see a therapist who specialises if sexual problems, he or she may be able to help you to understand what is behind it and what you need to do to overcome it.
As it has never happened before, it should be easily sorted out. You might try avoiding penetration for four weks and conentrate on other pleasures. That usually fixes it!

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