Ejaculation during intercourse

Sex Problems for Men

I need some advice. I am a 22 year old male and consider my self
healthy and pretty normal, but I have a problem with coming when I have sex. I ejaculate every single time when I masturbate and find it strange that I can't achieve this during intercourse. I have used a condom every time I've had sex and don't think it's the cause.

Is this more of a psychological issue, a physical issue, or a combination of both? It's been driving me crazy for some time and is really embarrassing. What should I do?

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Situational Retarded Ejaculation

What you have is "Situational Retarded Ejaculation", quite a common problem, but not as common as "Premature Ejaculation". If you visit "Ejaculation Problems" you will find more information.

It is predominantly a psychological problem and usually not that easy to fix, so be prepared to adjust to it and make the best of it, (there are after all advantages to being able to last a long time) and do not let it interfere with your sexual pleasure and happiness, or that of your partner.

As you are in your early 20's, it may very likely improve over time if you just allow things to unfold and don't get fixated on it.