How to let go after an affair
I have been married for 17 years and recently thought I found the man of my dreams, man I loved, man I would spend the rest of my life with. In five short months we have connected emontionally, spirtiually and physically. I have never experienced such a desire to be part of someones life. Shortly after the affair started I knew my love for my husband was gone years ago and that I needed to honest with both him and myself and move on.
I am two weeks from my Dissolution to be final and now the new love of my life has decided to try counselling with his wife because he misses his kids. I am devastated. He states that he loves me and hates to see me hurt, but his counsellor told him that he needed to stop seeing me so he could make a clear decision for his families sake. He has cut me off and I feel like someone in my life has died along with the crushing of my heart.
In my 40 years of life I have never experienced such pain. Where do I go? What do I do? Help!