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Can't cum with my girl

Submitted by jaylynnray554 on Sun, 20/05/2007 - 13:00. Sex Problems for Men

I can masturbate and come within 5 minutes, always. But it seems to change a hell of a lot when I am with my girlfriend. I just lost my virginity to her not too long ago and I did not cum it lasted a hour or longer. Before this I recieved oral and handjobs several times which lasted longer than 15 minutes. Some website I have looked at said it was a problem on my imagination but the last time I was with her and I tried to think on the pleasure and yeah. And yet nothing came. I am starting to get worried this is going to effect our relationship. Please need help really bad!!!!

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Are you watching porn?

Submitted by Mature Man on Sun, 20/05/2007 - 22:05.

If you are, you may be jaded from watching the ultimate (in your own mind) in terms of "hot sex" so you masturbate and cum easily, but the "real thing" may not live up to expectations!

I'd try to focus on pleasing HER and helping HER to cum. Maybe that will help YOU get there, too.

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can't cum with my girl friend

Submitted by tom fred on Fri, 06/07/2007 - 20:02.

You are unable to cum with your girl friend becoz you always mastrubating. So your external skin has become so hard and rough.
So when you are having sex with your girl friend her soft skin of vagina does hold the pressure as much as you give while mastrubuting.

so stop mastrubuting immediately and also keep away from sex for a while ( may be a month or so) then your skin will become soft and sensitive then you can realy enjoy having sex with opposite sex and also you will cum a lot more than you expects. Ofcourse your girl friend too enjoy. One more thing is after long while when you have sex first time it will ejaculate sooner than you wish so don't worry about. It is quite natural process. Try to convince your girl friend to have second time after some time. Better you inform your girl friend that you are going have twice this time.

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