Ok, I am the same guy who posted the earlier post about 'Fear Of Relationships' in which my girlfriend finished me saying she isn't ready for a relationship.

Your reply, as much as I dislike it, was that she just doesn't want to be with me anymore, and I should leave her alone and move on.

So, I attempted to forget her and move on, I went out the following week with friends, I still thought about her a lot, but I accepted it was over. The previous night she had messaged my mobile telling me to 'stay out of my way tommorow night if your out'. So I went out with the intention of not speaking or looking at her once.

While I was out, I couldnt help but look at her, since we were on the same dance floor, although its quite a big dance floor, I noticed she was never dancing with any other guys, and I noticed she was looking at me a lot. She sent her best mate over to me and asked if I would speak to her, I spent the next 2 hours listening to her saying how she was sorry for everything and that she misses me and still likes me. We got outside the club still together and she was talking about perhaps getting back together. The next day she changed her tone, she was talking about us rebuilding our friendship, but was still quite enthusiastic. I went out on the Saturday, I didn't approach her all night, but her best friend did attempt to talk to me, in which my ex ran over and started accusing us of doing somthing behind her back (although it wouldnt be a problem since I was single..) she then refused to speak to me all night and even said I was harassing her, I had enough and went home.

I then didnt speak to her for a week, to me, our relationship was truly over, I went out Thursday night not even thinking about her, me and a friend had pulled these 2 girls and were dancing with them on the dancefloor, I felt ringing from my mobile in my pocket, but I ignored it at first, but it wouldn't stop, I then had to walk away from this girl and check my mobile, to which I saw my ex's number and 9 missed calls. I quickly looked around to see her watching me from a balcony, I walked over and told her to stop messing about. She walked off towards the toilets. About 10 mins later I went to the toilet myself to see her and her mate talking. I simply said "Hi" and walked past. On my way out of the toilet, my ex grabbed my arm and said we need to talk, I agreed to go sit down and talk for a bit. She couldnt keep her hands off me, and she kept saying she really misses me. I was tempted to touch her back and kiss her, but i resisted. After the club ended I walked outside with my friends and was standing around. Again she was ringing me on my mobile, I just ignored them. I got in the taxi and was half way home when I got 3 more miss calls. I texted her back saying 'why are we doing this? we are both crazy about each other' she text me back saying 'she really misses me, maybe we could go back to seeing each other?' I was hesitant at first, saying 'you might change your mind tommorow' to which she replied 'I wont I promise, I just dont want to rush things'

I was so happy, the next day she even confirmed that she meant what she had said. We have texted each other all week, but unfortunately all my friends have gone on holiday and I have nobody to go out with. She asked me yesterday if I was going out tonight, I replied not unless I can go out with you and your mates, because mine are all on holiday. She didnt reply, but about 2 hours later, her best friend phoned me asking me to go out, she claimed that she was meeting a guy and her mate (my ex) would be alone, so I should go out to see her. At first I thought her best mate was just using me, but I thought deeper, and realised that my ex may have phoned her best mate to get me out, rather than ask herself because she is shy and scared I will say no. I texted her last night, telling her what her mate had said, and she said 'ok I will cu tommorow, we can have some fun'.

I phoned her up 30 minutes ago, asking what time should I meet you, she seemed shocked I was going out with them, claiming her friend had never told her I was going out with them. I told her 'I texted you last night, and you said we could have some fun' she said she can't remember saying that. Now I'm no fool, I KNOW she remembers saying that, but why this turn around? I asked her, do you want me to go out and meet you tonight? And she replied 'I'm not bothered, do what you want'. This leaves me very confused as to what her real feelings/motives are. What does she feel for me, why does she tease me so. Any ideas?