I have been with my partner for over 11 years.

He's is 14 years older than me and we have always got on excellant.

He dropped a bombshell last week and told me that he is leaving me and doesn't love me anymore. I was shocked and stunded. We have both had alot of pressure on us over the last year or so but I have stuck with him as he means everything to me.

I get mixed messages from him as he still cuddles me in bed and kisses me. He also said he might want me back when he's left.

I was a very confident, strong independant women and over the years he has knocked me for six. I'm 31 now and can't believe I will soon wake up one day soon without him.

I think he's having a break down or something but don't know what to do.

Can any men out there give me any advice? I don't know what the hell I'm going to do when he's gone as no one will ever replace him.