I totally understand! I moved in with my boyfriend and I knew he looked at porn occasionally (what men don't?), but I guess I didn't realize how bad he was. I worked really long hours as a bartender to pay our bills (he hardly ever helped out with that) and he used that as an excuse. He'd say "Oh, you're always gone and I get bored." Duh, I was always gone! Someone had to pay the bills! There was always an excuse, like I worked late and he liked sex in the morning, so he just HAD to go look at porn. He never wanted to have sex with me, claiming he was stressed out, but I'd look at the computer and see all the time he spent on porn sites.

Especially teen porn. This really bugged me because these girls looked so young! I also have a preteen sister who tries to look and act older, so it was really disturbing to me. I don't care that they are legal, they don't look it and that still makes him a pervert for being attracted to girls who look like they are 13 and 14, doesn't it? We are both in our mid-twenties, but I'm pretty petite, not to mention in pretty good shape and I can pass for an 18-20 year old. So if he's all into younger looking girls, I look the part, why not me?

For some reason, its really been affecting my self-esteem. He usually denied looking at those type of sites, but one time he told me he liked looking at younger girls because they are more "refreshing" looking. I work out nearly everyday and I do some modeling, so I can't be completely hideous, but feel so old and gross, even though I'm only 26. It got so bad, I accidentally confided in my mom once when he and I had broken up for a few weeks, no he's not allowed in my parent's house because of my sister.

I want to move on, but its so hard! I want to tell you the same thing, but I know how hard it is. Especially if you love the guy.

hiya, most women (or at least most women who type in this section) have a problem with their partner using porn full stop, mainly because they feel offended that their husband/boyfriend is looking at "other women". you on the other hand are like me, you have a partner that likes the way you look, enjoys sex with you, you dont have a big thing against porn but you dont like what he looks at. my partner looks at porn with young girls in it too - i was sexually abused at 13 and pornography involving these kids really disturbs me.

i thought my partner knew and understood this but it didnt stop him. we had to have a big argument about it to try and sort it out. i had to give the ultimatum that if he didnt stop watching porn involving kids then i would leave and make sure everyone knows what he looks at!!

you need to do the same im afraid, porn involving children is illegal and disgusting. i dont mind porn when its strictly an adult thing but kids are too young to know what they are doing and even the dirtiest of men should know better than to use it for their own pleasure. what is your partner going to do when he has children of his own?