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Sex Problems for Women

Me and my partner have been together for just over a year, I used to get turned on so easily, but these past few months it has been very difficult. I don't get aroused very often and it's come so far that I get nervous and unhappy when I can't. We want to try for children and lack of sex is making this difficult. How can I get aroused?

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There isn't an easy answer to your question, because there are so many possible reasons for turning off. The commonest reason is held in anger, but any emotional feeling that is held in can prevent turning on. Some medications can get in the way, especially some antidepressants. There can be deeper reasons, connected to the past. The best way to sort out what is going on would be to see a therapist or counsellor to get some ideas.