SExualDesire

Sex Problems for Men

I have been married for 30 years. I still love my wife and find her very attractive.However, she does not have any sexual desires towards me. She even sleeps in another room on days like our aniversary, Valentine's Day and my birthday. I will never consider an affair but it has been 15 years since we have had sexual intercourse and over a year since any other activity in a sexial nature. She says she has lost her desire but she sure loves to see younger men half clothed on tv. Anyway is there something I can do to eliminate my sexual desire ?

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15 years???

It has been 15 YEARS since you last had sex? Why are you asking for advice now?

You obviously need to talk about this, but are you doing things to try to be really loving and attentive? What does she need to perk her up?

Never have an affair? Sorry, but if mine turned me off totally that way, no matter what I tried to do or say, I'd be thinking about it...... really.

Good luck to you.