To be honest i dont know anymore, i have been with my partner for 8 years, when it all started the relationship was great, we talked, listened, had fun, and respected each other, great sexually and we communicated all the time. But over the last few years the problems have surfaced and i have doubts.

We have got to the stage where she will not live with me, she will not stop over at mine ( i must add i have my own house, she still lives at home with her mother we are both 29), our sex life is non existant, she is never in the mood and whenever i try its not tonight maybe tomorrow but tomorrow never seems to come. We have talked about this and its my fault for wanting to have a sexual relationship, she just doesnt want to anymore, and ive tried all the old things, flowers, a romatic meal, whisked her away for a weekend of fun but nothing, she even went out in the summer last year and brought some new underwear for a special occasion but still not seen it, in fact she has left it in my wardrobe in the bag with the labels still attached.

Since the new year, its been no phone calls, no txt messages in fact nothing i see her once a week if im lucky, i spend more time with friends and its not through me not trying, i call, i txt i even go round to her mums, but all she does is sleep or so im told.

After talking to a friend he just told me its over from his point of view the relationship has been dead for years and doesnt understand why i keep trying to revive it, and i should just accept it and move on, is he right or is there anything else i can do to bring the relastionship back to life again??