He thinks we "wore it out"

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My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months now. We started off in the absolute infatuation stage, having sex 3-4 times a day whenever we could do it. I have a very high sex drive for a woman, so I never have to "be in the mood" for sex, I'm always in the mood!
I thought my boyfriend was this way also, it seemed that way. But the past couple of days, I've been feeling strange about our sex. It is almost like he is trying to get it over with as fast as he can, and we don't really interact all that much during either. As any other normal person would feel, I feel a little rejected and insufficient. When I talked to him about it, first he got defensive, but then he said that he thought maybe we wore out "the whole sex thing."
I don't know what to think, we're both just 24 years old, and I don't think this should be happening. I'm trying not to make it a big deal, but it's kind of eating away at me. And now he thinks I'm a nymphomaniac and calls me "porn star" because he thinks that is the only reason I love him. This is putting a strain on our relationship and I could use a little advice. Thanks

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Wearing it out?

Although I'd love to try tsex that often for a week or so, I think that sex that often eventually might start to "wear out", no matter how good it is. Sort of like eating the most fabulous steak or lobster or chocolate cake or whatever, day after day!

Are you enjoying it in various ways, in various positions and in various places or at various times of day? Or might it always be the same way or place? That could also eventually dull the whole act, I would think.

Maybe give sex itself a rest for a bit and try to enjoy other things together?

Good luck. And I wouldn't give up on sex altoghether. It's too fantastic not to enjoy!