Been married for 2 years. We were seeing each other for 6 yars. Howveer couldnt consummate till date. I recently discovered this term and opened my eyes. I am on verge of separation as my husband feels he has had it upto his head and cannot live with me and refuses to understand that though i was normal i had a problem. I need this marriage to work. I have visted a psychiatrist and have started dilating.