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Surrogate partner therapy

Submitted by shaun on Mon, 08/01/2007 - 05:21. Sex Problems for Men

Hi
I am 40years old and havent had a sexual relationship since I was 24, basically I feel I have grown used going without sex, but at the same time I do feel very unhappy in some ways i dont quite feel a man, over the years have had some problem with depression have been fairly socially isolated.

I was considering surrogate partner therapy i understand it can be a very effective form of therapy for those who lack social sexual experince. i do have the normal desires i often masturbate bu clearly it isnt an ideal solution.

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Surrogate therapy

Submitted by Mature Man on Mon, 08/01/2007 - 12:27.

Do you at least enjoy masturbation? It CAN help, even if not ideal. Like many married men, I admit that I masturbate fairly often, to supplement what my wife is able or willing to do, simply because my "appetite" is a lot higher than hers! (It drives me crazy seeing posts from mature women who want more sex and whose husbands have no interest! I wish one of those women lived here, in a way!!!)

Beware depression, too. Get medical help if you have not done so. I have had TWO bouts of depression over the years, and medication CAN help.

Post again if you like and if it helps to hear from others.

Good luck.

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