My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, the first 6 months in our relationship we have always had great sex, of course most of it was when he was drinking, now its like once every 2 weeks, everytime I innitiate it he rejects me, I feel very insecure about this, I have a high sex drive and I don't know what to do anymore, I have tried to talk to him about it, and he says he doesnt want it to get old, I think thats an excuse I was married for 10 years and had a healthy sex life with my ex husband, I love dressing up in lingere and anything sexual I'm up for it, and I know it has nothing to do with my body, I look great. I know he loves me, and we are still young for this to be a problem, he's 27 and I am 29... and the times we do something when he is drinking he doesn't finish after i'm done he's ready to stop... the last experience we had was after a night comming back from a local bar I was so worked up, innitiated he said no, i laid down feeling insecure and then to my surprise he laid down and begin to get me off with out intercourse or oral after that, im smiling from ear to ear I'm going to get it!!!! He then gets up off the bed and say's okay your done I'm going play the video game!!! what the hell was that about???? PLEASE HELP ME, IM TIRED OF GETTING WORKED UP FOR REJECTION :(