Ok so here is the background. I am 33 years old, perfect health, have always had a very active sex life. Perhaps overly active for quite a long time, many hot relationships that were empty as far as emotion goes.

So I meet the girl of my dreams, we become friends, many months pass, we lose touch, we meet up 5 months later, things are hot, one night we hook up, we have sex. It is good, fulfilling for both of us, time goes on, we fool around get to know each other better, we fall in love.

We have sex a few more times, sporadically, but then a couple times we fool around, she turns me on like crazy, NO problem with getting an erection, or playing in everyway, but then it comes to sex, intercourse and I lose my erection due to stress.

I talk to my dr. he says it is anxiety, take 20 mg of cialis and it will work great, but I really want to find if there is something even stronger, even if it is something that doesnt require stimulation to work, maybe something that will make me hard and not be able to lose the erection. I called my dr. and left a message today.

Anyone been through this, what worked for you etc?

I have talked to my gf about this, and she has been more than understanding but we only had sex a few times in a few months, she wants it and so do I!