My husband couldn't wait to marry me and sometimes I feel it is because I was a virgin and he'd never had one before. Now we never have sex and I'm not sure what I should do. I feel unattractive to him and recently moved all of my things upstairs so I wouldn't have to feel depressed about being rejected by him night after night. We now have our own rooms and I feel we should be getting divorced, but whenever I try to talk to him about it, he says I shouldn't talk about his libido because it's hurtful or he'll tell me that I have no good reason to want a divorce. He won't talk to me about what is going on and it's driving me crazy!!! Can someone give me advice on what my next step should be or how I can get some help??? I thought being in love with someone naturally made you want to be close to them and have sex with them often. I feel very unloved and unhappy.