Too Slow?

Sex Problems for Men

I've heard about men being too fast in bed, but I had never heard about being too slow. My girlfriend was giving me a blow job the other day and she just couldn't hold out for me long enough to come. She must have been trying for at least 3 minutes, and I came really really close, but not close enough I guess. Is it me? Is it her? Is there anything I can do?

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re: too slow?

I take much longer to ejaculate during oral as opposed to vaginal. Don't know if that's your problem, too. I don't know, I think it may be the type of stimulation. And no, 3 minutes is not too long. Try giving her a "hand" by stimulating yourself. That oftentimes will help speed things up. I honestly don't think you have much of a problem. Good luck.

3 minutes

3 minutes is not long. Maybe it was not stimulating enough. Probably there is nothing wrong with either of you.