I am 23 years old and have been with my fiance(now) 5 1/2 years. There is just one problem, I don't feel connected to him during sex. So much so that lately when we have sex, I avoid being kissed by him, it just does nothing for me. We recently saw a doctor for premature ejaculation being that that is our biggest problem in the bedroom. Unfortunalety it cost way to much for us to follow the program ($1500). I know this effects his ego so I try not to talk to him about it too often, but everytime after sex he can see the disappointment in my eyes and I have to hide back tears. It hurts me so much to not be on that "same level" with him at the "same time". I know that it is effecting many aspects of our relationship, I see myself pushing further and further away from him, even outside the bedroom. If we can't connect in the bedroom, and I feel myself falling out of love with him, should I marry him?