Lasting longer?

Sex Problems for Men

When I had sex, I often suffered from premature ejaculation, and would not be able to continue to satisfy my partner. I have found a technique that I use, but wonder if this "technique" might be a problem or is normal? Normally around one minute after penetration I feel the urge to ejaculate with the accompanying orgasm and thus ending the sex session on my end...but if I pull out and relax myself, some semen just flows out of my penis without the accompanied contractions. After this stops, I'm able to continue on with an erection and satisfy my girlfriend. I ejaculate 1-3 times during sex, taking more time in between each ejaculation until I finally orgasm when she does. Is this normal...and safe?

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Safe and sound

It sounds like you have managed to find a good system for coping with your problem. Many men would like to have sex worked out as well as you have. You certainly have nothing to worry about as far as safety goes. What is normal is always an interesting question when it concerns sex. There is an extremely wide range of ways that people can have sex together, and whether you consider them normal mostly depends on your upbringing, culture, and orientation. It wouldn't seem that you are doing anything which is not well within the behaviours of most people.
You're fine, have a good time.

ejaulation

why not try performa condoms you wont have to pull out you can just keep going and going . They have a decnsortiser inside so no more preature ejaculation infact we find tha we have to take it off for a bit so that my partner can come . We have gone from two minutes to as long as you can keep going for . They are made by durex and you can get them really cheap off ebay.