I found out my husband cheated on me right before he got deployed. We didn't even have time to get to the bottom of things or find out where in the world did he have time to do this. I have forgiven him but I can't forget the infidelity happened. I love my husband very much, next month we would be married for 1 yr. Of course problems arise in the 1st year. I heard the 1st year is the hardest and it has been extremely hard for us. I got what I wanted and that was for him to leave her alone and he did, he's deployed! What should I do!