how do you know?

Relationship Problems

You know when people say to you, you know when you know that the person you meet is the right one, would you agree?
Is it true you can tell what someone is like when you first meet them, should you go by your gut instinct because when I do, its normally correct. If I think someone is a little bit of a player, arrogant, up their own backside, womaniser or just up for one thing, from the minute I meet them, normally I have been right. Only not to follow my instincts and to carry on seeing them, sometimes I want that risk but then I only get hurt in the process. I knew right from day 1 that they were a no go area. Should I be honest with these men when I first meet them, on how I feel or just simply ignore them and walk away if they try and contact me again.
If they are really persistent to see me again what should I do, I am very sensitive and I find it hard to be honest about how they make me feel, normally I just don’t contact them, and hope they get the message sooner or later.
What do you think??
Thanks

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How do you know?

How do you know anything about another person? Gut instinct needs to be backed up by facts, behaviour and what they do. Words are fine but deeds are finer. Instinct is no use without brains! So listen to your intuitions, but get hard evidence to support what you believe.
Why on earth would you not be honest about how you feel?