I am a 24/m and had sex for the first time a few months ago. The problem is I have never ejaculated inside my girlfriend, I have only ejaculated a few time when she stimulates me with her hand. The first few times of intercourse were fun but I found it hard to keep an erection during intercourse. Now during foreplay she can get me very hard (erect) but once I move or try to have penetrative sex with her I go all soft. I am not sure if this is fear because sometime I think that because I failed to ejaculate before I have a lot of pressure to finish properly this time round. Sometimes I think it could be the thought of wearing a condom and it just gets me out of the mood completely. I think my penis works fine because when I masturbate everything seems normal.
I love my girlfriend and I don't want to lose her, she say it doesn't matter everytime but I feel I am dissappointing her and giving her the feeling i dont want her or need her. I think this problem is driving her away and I am scared I will lose her. She knows she is my first love and I know she has only been with one man before me and she said she never had problems like this before, I know she feels like that I don't love her or need her. Thanks for listening.