help me my partner is gay

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i have been with this man 4 14 years i have had 4 kids by him 7 months ago he lot me he is gay and he did not love me any more and he had been seeing man behind my back 4 the 14 years i have been with him.
i have not told my kids why their dad is not at home, my oldest is 14 and he is not going to take it well i told them me and daddy just can not get on any more.
But now he is telling me he is not gay any more and he loves me now and would like to came home and if i think that he would do that any more to take over the money side of thing he will not let me more on i am so down there is just no where 4 me to go or to talk to.
I have be on line looking there is not a thing i just would like to talk to some one thats like me and i think it bad thats there not any chat rooms or any thing like that 4 people who as gone through this. it just not nice that u live with some one who u thing is one thing and there not and my life and my kids life r un happy because of a man who can not make up his mind what he is and i think its un fair
please if there is any one out there like me tell me how u have got on and if it gets better as time gos bye thank u

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Muddled man

This is a horrible situation . First one thing, then another for you to cope with, and to protect your 4 children.
It is not clear from what you say exactly what he is offering you? Is he wanting to support you and the kids, or the opposite? It would be expected that he would continue to support his family, whatever he decided to to about the future.
It would also be understandable if you were unable to trust him or believe him whatever he says.