Never really done this 'forum' thing before. I'm not sure if this is a problem or even anything to worry about? I'm in a relationship with a girl, who I love and get on with very much, have a great sex life etc, but every now-and-again when I'm asleep I will initiate sex. I will get my girlfriend aroused, etc and sometimes a little more. If she is in the mood, we will have sex (by this time I am awake). This doesn't concern her as she trusts me in bed completely and if she ignores me for a few seconds, I just turn over and go back to sleep. My concern is that sometimes I please my girlfriend (not by sex) for a few minutes and them go back to sleep, but I don't know I've done it until she tells me in the morning! She finds this funny and isn't concerned at all, but I just don't feel as if it's right that I can initiate sex whilst I'm asleep and not really recall doing it in the morning? It doesn't seem to have any pattern either, i.e. after a few beers or going to sleep without having sex, strange. Anyone else have the same issue? Thanks