My boyfriend and I have been living together for about a year now. We are both young, hot, and in great shape. We see each other for a good amount of time every day, and yet, it's been a month since we've had sex. He says it's because he smokes or he's tired or whatever. I know he's not cheating on me. In fact, he's the only guy I've ever been sure isn't cheating on me. I love him very much and it hurts me that we hardly ever make love.

To make matters worse, I have a laptop computer that on the "history" I've found porn websites. He has a few DVD's. I tell him that I hate it, I even made him a film of pictures of me so he wouldn't look at other women when he would masturbate. I thought that he had followed my wishes, because I hadn't found websites on my computer, but I found out that he had a subscription to one today. It really hurts me that he would rather masturbate to other people than go in the bedroom with me. I really don't know what to do.