my fiance and i have been together going on 5 yrs. recently we have been arguing all the time every day and night! we had a night out with friends who are all couples or married couples, no-one in the club we went to would have known we were engaged! he ignored me he moaned if i asked for a drink and he preferred to dance with my best friend! it got to the stage that even to doormen made a comment to me anyway the last fight we had our sex life was brought up and as i fell like im living with my brother because we have no sex life mr finace told me that was because sex was boring! This hurt me deeply as I used to have a high sex drive until I started putting on some weight not much but a little and it makes me feel uncomfortable and im not happy with myself I am watching what im eating and exercising but its taking time as it would im nearly 30, but my fiance always comments on things that make me feel like this such as my bum or my tummy but mostly my big boobs I don't feel sexy and i don't fell good that my fiance doesn't like the way my body is so of course im not going to go wild in the bedroom and let him see all the bits i hate no way. so i realy don't know what to do to spice up or sex life so its not boring to be honest i don't even know if i can be bothered anymore with the fighting the hurtful comments everything i am feeling really low i need some good advice please please help.