I've finished with my girl for 5wks now (she finished with me after 4yrs ), but in the past 2wks we have seen each other 5 times and been texting and phoning whenever we get the chance too. We both want to take it slowly and see whats happens.

I know she loves me and I love her, and I know she is the girl for me, because during those 5wks that we were finished, I never saw a girl that I wanted. Every night I went out I only wanted my ex back and no other girl. I'm not the best lookin fella but my ex is lovely, plus she told me that over the past week she is starting to fall in love with me like she did 4yrs ago.

But here is the problem. Over the past fews days I have been thinking that I dont want her, and it's hurting me so much, because I really really know that she is the girl for me without a doubt. What is wrong with me because I love her so much and never ever want to lose her again. I just want this bad feeling to go away so we can get closer and be in love again.

p.s I worry over everything if thats any good to you. My mum told me that the reason why im feeling like this is because im scared of getting hurt again