My boyfriend gets sexy photos from his friends and passes them along to other guys through emails. He tells me he doesn't do it all the time/that much, but I do notice that he doesn't do it on the computer, only when I'm away from him and he emails them to himself and on his cell phone at least once a month. Is these photos considered Porn?

He tells me that I should understand that this is a guy thing and it doesn't interfere with how he sees me but it bothers me so much I feel like I'm going to die and it affects how I want to be with him sexually. I feel so disgusted with every naked/half naked body in his presence. I feel as though he is physical with me but mentally with them but He says otherwise and refuses to get rid of them for the sake of our relationship. This is our biggest, well pretty much THE problem we constantly fight about.

I know that I was wrong when I went through his things and destroyed things, but I was so angry, hurt and betrayed that he could be this way with me. I am such a beautiful lady inside and out. He even says he can't take me nowhere with out men trying to hit on me. I have never ever showed him that other men mattered to me in any kind of way. He seems to think that I am blowing this way out of proportion. I just keep telling him it hurts deeply and I want to compromise and make our relationship work. It's bad enough that his way of telling me he loves me is showing me (in his own way), not actually telling me.

The trust is pretty much gone now and the only thing we have left is our physical and sexual (when we're there) attraction towards each other.

He won't really talk with me because he says I should know my man and he thinks I am old enough to know that men do this. I tell him I under stand MEN do this, but I don't understand HIM doing this when he tells me I am all he's been searching for for a long time. (Because we see each other in such a way that we both never really had.) Because he refuses to give it up for us, it's hard to see the wonderful man that he is, clearly.

Am I being unreasonable about this? Why tell me that I have all of that and then som and that he came after me, if he's going to do this sort of thing to hurt me?

Any comments???