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Submitted by ethics on Sun, 13/11/2005 - 13:12. Sex Problems for Men

I am a 20 yo bi male which i have this problem: I dont have sex! when I was 17 my friends got me to a bitch to fuck but my thing never lifted. Now I get hard on boys, but i havent really fucked anyone yet. The thing is that when I think of having sex with a woman, I think it as a sin and I dont get hard on it.

Can you help me?
Thank you

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I feel fine the way I am

Submitted by ethics on Sun, 27/11/2005 - 16:37.

The point is that I am perfectly ok with the way I am, whether bi or gay. The problem is that i do not feel comfortable with the outside world. The billions out there that do not accept me as normal, but as a freak. I cannot affort to lose my respect as a human by, friends, colleagues and family. That is what I am afraid of. If anyone of you realised that a loved person of yours was gay, wouldnt you change image against him/her?

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Been there

Submitted by mkarliner on Tue, 29/11/2005 - 22:45.

I have to say that I have been in exactly this situation. That is, I realised that my brother was gay. Or rather, I should say, that my brother came out as gay, after myself and everyone that knew him had know he was gay for many years. All I can say is that I felt a great sense of relief, as it had obviously made life difficult for him for a long while. This didn't mean that life would be easier going forward, but it made it easier to support him.

Now, I don't know what culture or society you live in, and it may be very difficult to come out where you live, but I suspect that accepting yourself maybe the first step. What you present to the outside world is your affair, and it may seem like living a lie, but it seems to me that it would be better than lying to yourself.

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Well, I want to be str8, but

Submitted by ethics on Sat, 26/11/2005 - 16:25.

Well, I want to be str8, but I cant manage to like girls the way I do, and I cant see them sexually. Is there something wrong about me?

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Recognising your Sexuality

Submitted by mpramage on Sun, 27/11/2005 - 13:10.

I understand your wish to be straight, as it is the more accepted and more usual sexual orientation. This does not mean it is "better".
One of the unfortunate aspects of our culture is the pressure to define who we are by sexual orientation. Being gay, straight, bi-sexual or none of those is just a part of who a person is, not "normal".
I know some people who are very strange indeed, and it has nothing to do with their sexual orientation.
Working out who you are sexually takes time and you don't have to know what is right for you immediately. Accepting who you are is the most important thing, and until you are clear about that, there is no need to make any big decisions about how you live.

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Possibly Gay?

Submitted by mpramage on Sun, 13/11/2005 - 19:09.

I would think it quite likely that you are gay, rather than Bi, and that would explain not getting a hard on with a woman. If sesx is a sin, then of course you won't get a hard on, your mind will prevernt it.

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Well have you ever thought

Submitted by ethics on Sat, 26/11/2005 - 11:38.

Well have you ever thought that I do NOT want to be gay? I dont want to be something strange! I want to be normal. What shall I do?

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Its not a sin!

Submitted by miss forbes on Fri, 16/06/2006 - 08:34.

You are normal,being gay is not a sin,love yourself for who you are. x

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