Ok I have been dating this guy for almost 8 months now, and I really do love him. But I have a major problem with his ex. I cant stand her. Recently my boyfriend's dad got of jail and he told his ex when he was getting out and now she wants to go see him. Even though they were supposely close I really dont think there's a point in her going to see him. I've waited almost 8 months to meet this guy and get to know him so he can like me, but I feel like she is trying to get in the way. I think she is just trying to find a way to stay in my boyfriend's life. And I just think its only fair for her to move on from everything and let me get to know him...after all I am the one dating his son..right!? Certain people think I'm making a huge deal about this but then others think I am completely right and that she doesnt need to. Help me please! Am I really making a big deal..what can I do to keep this from bothering me!???