Now please understand that I am aware of the dangers that sex can bring in ones life and I respect the protection that a condom provides. My boyfriend has three kids 1 before mine and 1 after mine (with the same girl). He is scared of having anymore kids and I understand that. I just cant help the fact that condoms entering my vagina is a turn off. I can feel the latex and its like a barrier between me and an orgasm. I cannot stay lubricated naturally with a condom I will get dry almost instantly down there. When my boyfriend mentions wheres the condom I am almost completely turned off. After sex I smell like rubber down there and discharge out the pieces of rubber the friction leaves over the next few days. I hate it but I have been rolling with it for a while. I have better feeling with the lambskin or non-latex condoms but they dont make them in my boyfriends size. He can only wear magnum or magnum Xl. The warm sensation brand adds lube but nothing alleviates the rubber barrier feeling during sex. It got to the point where during sex I advised him that the condom was aturn off as I couldnt fake the orgasm anymore. He took the condom off to pacify me and it was great. But he doesnt want to have unprotected sex. He actually doesnt want to have sex at all without a condom. I am faithfully on the pill I even have morning after pills on stand by I have the spermicide foam. What can I do to have sex that we can both enjoy with eachother at the same time. Oh and maybe I should mention that foreplay doesnt exist and when I bring that up my boyfriend says hes tired or he loses his erection. What can I do besides leave him alone?