Okay, I'm 19 years old and extremely confused and frustrated with sex right now. I scrolled through my phone book trying to find someone to talk to, but there's not really anyone I can discuss this kind of thing with.

I've had a few sexual encounters lately, and even though I make sure to get all the high fives and recognition from my friends, on the inside, I feel more upset than accomplished. Each time I get intimate with a girl I finish too quickly or completely lose my erection. In a couple sitations it has made my relationship with the girl too uncomfortable to continue.

I know I'm only 19 and I smoke weed pretty frequently. I don't know if it could be the result of too much weed, if it is something I will eventually grow out of, or if I should talk to someone about this. I hope the only solution I hear of isn't some form of medication, that would ruin my day.

If anyone has any advice, or even wants to give me a good, friendly pat on the back, they would recieve infinite gratitude and an endless about of love.