My Boyfriend and I have been having sex for months. Every once in a while he would notice little red bumps on his penis that would appear nd be painful for a while and then disappear shortly thereafter. I have never had any type of a problem or issue like that. Recently I have developed sores resembling blisters/pimples in my vaginal area which are extremely painful making it almost impossible to pee. I have also come down with the random sweats and a sore throat. Recently/Today. I noticed that I was bleeding (non period related).
Ive tried to figure it out but I dont know what it could be. The only thing I could come up with was possible HSV1 or 2. We had oral intercourse while he had a cold sore on his lip. Could that have caused it? Does anyone have any ideas for what this could be and for possible relief from this pain any type of medicine I could pick up?

Thanks!!