lack of sex

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Hey i have been dating this girl for 3 years now. We uses to have sex 3-4 times a day.But now we are down to 1 or times a week.Now she only once to snuggle. Me being a guy i want sex all the time. She doesnt even want to have oral stuff any more either
thanks for your help

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Compromise is in order

I'm afraid that what you are experiencing is completely normal for most relationships. In general, after a few years, the frequency of sex does decrease. However, honest and open discussion with your girlfriend may lead to a compromise. Be quite clear though, the phrase is 'a compromise', that means that you will not get all you want, and she may have to have more sex than she wants. That is the nature of negotiation.
best of luck

Mike