he doubts me...

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hi...really confused coz the fist time my bf penetrated me fully, there was no bleeding...he was my first and i never had any sexual encounter with any other man before him nor do i masturbate...he uses the basis that bleeding occurs when a woman is still a virgin...unfortunately, he didnt see any sign of blood...and now he is having doubts...im being true to him but he is having doubts...why is this? prior to that incident, weve been getting more and more intimate...but no complete penetration yet...was it because maybe he was just too gentle or maybe weve been slowly breaking my hymen as weve progressed and just didnt know he broke into me already??? really confused...='(

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Tell your boyfriend that blee

Tell your boyfriend that bleeding is not the only way to tell if a woman is a virgin. There are lots of ways you can accidentally tear the hymen, like sports or dancing or even falling or something like that. Some women don't have a hymen, or its opening is so large it won't ever tear. He should trust you enough to believe you when you say you're a virgin, not just if he makes you bleed the first time you have sex.

Virgins don't bleed

Most virgins don't bleed, contrary to many cultural beliefs.