why men say these things?

Relationship Problems

Why do men say they aren’t ready for a relationship with you but they still contact you? There was this one bloke I dated for a couple of weeks, he did really like me but I kind of found someone else, we then tried to make things work again but all went pear shaped. I decided that maybe because I found someone else I had better stop pestering him and saying sorry so many times that maybe he was now sick of me apologizing so much. Now he contacts me, but asks constant questions like; are you still single?, are you seeing anyone? do you prefer being single than being in a relationship? I ask why he is so interested because I would never dare ask him, and he replies just interested but doesn’t want a relationship with me, so why ask??
What do these men want? He wants to meet me for a drink next week but seriously is there any point?? I am assuming here he is just after one thing possibly, he did try last time but I have no intentions of even going down that route with him……
Don’t know what to do??

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Silly question

There are so many confused and confusing messages here, both from men and from you that it is impossible to make sense of any of it. Listen carefully to what people (men and women) say, observe what they do, and be aware of what you think and what you want. More than that I cannot say.