My Sister's Messed Up Family!

Family Problems

Well, I was livin with my sister's grandfather's house this year. He was always drinking and hitting on my mother and I. As was his son. I told them I wouldn't touch either of them with a six-ft. pole even if they payed me. Him and his son were always making fun of me telling me I was going to turn into a slut or the "town hor". I never felt bad because i always knew it wasnt' true. A month later i started going out with this one guy. And i really, really like him. but my sister's grandpa said that in two weeks i was going to be married and would start my training as a hor. his son said that i was a slut and that i would follow my mothers footsteps although she was never a slut. two weeks later with no marriage bells and i stil with my boyfriend the inevitable happens. my sister's grandpa threatens my mom that hell skin our animals alive than roast them over the fire. my mother spit at him and in return he nocked her to the ground. she had told him that his son had called me a slut and so he told my mother that i was a lier. i had no notice of this until my mother came over to my cousins house with my sisters uncle behind her holding one of my suitcases. he was talking to amber(his dope-ho) that he would have slapped my mother harder. i would have blacked out if my boyfriend hadn't stayed on the phone for over an hour calming me down. i ask this why do people who are so miserable make mine or anyone else's lives miserable. i ask this with only a suitcase to my name.

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To my sisters messed up family

YOU POOR CHILD. YOU KNOW, WE NOT ONLY CAN MAKE OUR OWN PLACE IN THIS WORLD AND CHOOSE HOW WE WANT TO LIVE, MOST OFTEN WE SHOULD DO JUST THAT. UNFORTUNATELY YOU ARE NOT ALONE. YOU HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH THE SENSE TO KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG, AND THE FACT THAT YOUR FAMILY'S BEHAVIOR AND CRUDeNESS BOTHERS YOU IS A VERY GOOD SIGN. MOST OFTEN WHEN SOMEONE HAS BEEN A MEMBER OF A DySFUNCTIONAL FAMILY AND SURROUNDED BY THEIR REPULSIVE HABITS FOR TOO LONG, THEY TEND TO FEEL SOME MORAL OBLIGATION TRY TO CORRECT THINGS AND FIGURE OUT THESE HOSTILE PEOPLE WITH THEIR UNACCEPTABLE AND SAD BEHAVIOR PATTERNS. DO NOT FEEL OBLIGATED TO THEM! SET YOUR OWN GOALS AND PATH BASED ON YOUR OWN MORALS AND COMMON SENSE AND GET THE HELL OUT! GO YOUR OWN WAY.
THE POSSIBILITY OF YOUR STICKING AROUND TOO LONG COULD SADLY HARM YOU BOTH PSYChOLOGICALLY AND PHYSICALLY. IT AND THEY COULD EVENTUALLY ROB YOU OF THE GOOD SENSE YOU HAVE NOW. YOUR SISTER'S FAMILY ALL NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP NO DOUBT. THEY SEEM TO ENJOY HAVING A DOOR MATT AND SOMEONE TO PICK ON AND HURT. THIS IS A SADISTIC PATTERN THEY SEEM TO ENJOY OUT OF THEIR OWN IGNORANCE AND EMOTIONAL INSECURITIES AND IT ALL MAY GO BACK TO THEIR OWN POOR TREATMENT THEY THEMSELVES HAD TO ENDURE. OLD BAGGAGE THEY CARRY AROUND.
YOU WOULD NOT BE DOING THEM AN INJUSTICE TO LEAVE THEM BELIEVE ME. BUT YOU WOULD BE DOING YOURSELF AN INJUSTICE TO STAY! PLEASE TAKE GOOD CARE OF YOURSELF DEAR, AND SEARCH FOR AND STICK WITH PEOPLE THAT WILL RESPECT YOU FOR ALL YOUR GOOD AND CARING QUALITIES. PEOPLE THAT WILL TREAT YOU GOOD AND ADD SOME LIGHT, HAPPINESS AND STABILITY TO YOUR LIFE. GET OUT WHILE THE GETTING IS GOOD AND GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS YOU! FROM ONE WHO UNDERSTANDS.

it sounds like your sisters f

it sounds like your sisters family is messed up if i were you go live with yuor best friend.

i agree

i agree you should stay with your bf and get away from that crazy g~pa!!try talking to people about it