I am 44 years old and have 3 children. I have been single for 2 years after a 20 year marriage. My boyfriend is not very satisfied with our sex life, only because he says that I have a large vagina. During sex, I become very lubricated when aroused, so I guess that doesn't help him to feel the sensation of a tight vagina. The problem is that he accuses me of cheating constantly and implies that I must have had many sex partners in the past or have been with men who were very large. Neither one of these things are true. I have only had 3 sexual partners including him in my life. I feel so hurt and so rejected now. He recently broke off the relationship for this reason. He told me that I am the most exciting sexual partner that he has ever had but he just can't get past the size of my vagina. He refuses to accept the fact that I had 3 vaginal deliveries in my life and maybe that has a little to do with me not being the size of an 18 year old virgin. I have tried Kegels and they don't work. I don't know what to do.