Recently,

I told my boyfriend something very personal about me. I told him that I have sexual fantasies of being with other women. He took it well. Which suprised me because of his religious Christian upbringing.

It was after that that he told me his fantasy. And I don't know how to handle it.

He told me that he likes to fantasize about dressing up in womens clothing and having sex with other women. In his dreams he is a submissive girl. Wearing heels, skirts, makeup. But the part in the dream that confuses me even more, is that although he is still a man in the dream, he doesn't penetrate the girl. She penetrates him with a strap on.

He also told me that his first orgasm, was to such a fantasy.

He likes to cross dress for fun every once in a while. And I don't like it.

What he fantasizes about is his own business. But i know I can't be the one to help him feed it. I like the idea of being with a MAN.

I don't know what to do. He feels guilty for thinking about it, and I guess I want to know what this means.

Advice?